This is all well put.
Just to play devil's advocate:
Just because Robin Thicke wrote a song that might be problematic doesn't mean he's likely a rapist or someone who habitually does sexual predation.
NOW TO BE CLEAR, YES, HE DID SOMETHING BAD AND WE CAN PROBABLY CONCLUDE THAT HE SEXUALLY ASSAULTED HER, but lots of love songs are problematic. Often times, the words are pretty secondary to what the artist is going for which is a slick beat and I can't even remember offhand if Thicke wrote those words.
When looking at this situation and his response to it, I just don't think the song's lyrics are a smoking gun.
Also, and I'm not the expert here, in modeling is there perhaps some standard about how people are supposed to guide you physically to where they want you to sit or pose? I don't really know but maybe some things are part of the professional code.
But you shouldn't have been fired from what I know and I would understand how traumatic that would have been for you.