Sounds like McDuffe really wants to be insulted. She's actively nitpicking and looking to cancel.
If you want people to honestly express themselves about rae (the first step to having real discussions, then you can't create such a ridiculous climate of finger-pointing.
It's one thing to analyze the context of what someone says but when you are erroneously accusing someone of slapping black people in the face, you're using fighting words, and I'm not cool with that. One can say I'm insulted by her declaration of an insult.
It's almost the same argument that Republicans are trying to use to negate student debt cancellation: Some of us suffered paying debt....therefore I don't treat your lesser suffering seriously