I'm not that familiar with the Proud Boy movement or even the Incel movement (isn't there something extremely harmful about grouping all sexually frustrated men in the same class?) but it seems like you're take on Dwight is from a point of view of wanting to overgeneralize men. Perhaps you should read the writings of Michael Ian Black that says that young men should have the same movement of nurturing love and encouragement to free them of gender roles that young women have the violent rhetoric of "you're toxic, get over it."
I'm not familiar enough with your writing to know what school you fall into.
I just did an Office rewatch (which you can find on my medium page) and found a number of uncomfortable truths in early episodes regarding much of the cast, so I'm not suggesting giving any of the guys on the show a break. Michael Scott sexually harrassed Pam and Ryan, Toby didn't separate his feelings from women in the office from his job and that was problematic, and Gabe was flat-out abusing Erin.
Dwight was a very torturous and terrIble personality for much of his run. But it was a complicated situation. He was not socialized properly since he grew up in an Amish environment (which likely mis-educated him on gender roles and proper social cues with eveeryone), and he was bullied by his coworker which I'd probably take into account. He might also be on the spectrum.
The show was flanderized majorly after season one and I wouldn't judge these characters by how they started out but by how they grew.