Damn, that's deep!
I also thought this movie was bizarre and wrong. And there was this whole other thing about how she was basically their prostitute and that was unexplored.
Also, if I'm not mistaken they did briefly have uneventful sex which was wrong on both of them.
I think we need to not create a culture of offense as much, so I would say that people might loosen up about this movie and also loosen up about films that are inappropriate from the other gender perspective (such a Revenge of the Nerds or Grease) but those things we can take as products of their time, so I understand why it's fairer game to criticize this one. And as I said, I thought the movie was mal-spirited too.
Also, do most men not get raped in prison or not?